Attracting a God-fearing man as a life partner in this day and age is not a child’s play.
Amarachi is my niece. She has lived 25 years here on Earth without a partner. She had insisted that any man she would allow into her life must be a Godly man.
Amarachi was born into a christian family. Her parents are devoted christians. If their devotion were anything to go by, they are already saints here on Earth. And they go out of their way to bring up all their children in the way of the Lord. Amarachi happens to be their first child. And they employed all their energies – spiritual and physical – to ensure Amarachi becomes another Mother Mary here on Earth.
However, she had gone through the kindergarten, the elementary school, the tertiary institution, graduated as a chemical engineer and now, gainfully employed.
She is mature in every sense and now independent.
But there comes a time in a woman’s life when she really needs a man in her life. For Amarachi, that time has come.
She has, however, been attracting men but the challenge was that she had been picky. She wants a genuine man of God. This has left her in a world of loneliness.
She has been with feelings of lack of self-worth and low self-esteem. At a point in her life, she started grappling with self-confidence issues. She felt like she is not lovable. Or is there anything wrong with me?, she would muse. She got confused. She got frustrated. She felt abandoned.
The truth is: this kind of situation is better experienced than described. I had myself in this valley years back. And from my experience and research on the experiences of others, attracting a christian man into your life is possible but you need the following strategies.
ï§ Good Character
For you to attract a man of your dreams and a good christian for that matter, your character has to be above board. You must be a woman of good character. Are you always considerate? Do you tell the truth no matter what? Do you go out of your way to help others? Are you charitable? Does your life inspire or encourage whoever you come in contact with? Are you kind?
Are you always ready to serve? In order to attract quality God-fearing men into your life, you need to be open to serve God and man. If you want to be a leader; if you want to be spotted out; it is in serving. In your family, serve. In your place of work, serve. And even in your local church, serve. The Scripture says that if you want to be the greatest, you would need to be a servant.
As a mature human being, there could be a time your emotions will, kind of try to, dictate to you your next steps towards the opposite sex. Not only that, there could be a time you could be so upset over a wrong-doing from somebody you respect so much. What will you do? Just take any action not minding the consequences? No! This is where self-restraint comes in. This is where self-control becomes important. You never can tell if you’re just being tested?!
Are you always your authentic self? Being open and vulnerable attract men as the flower attracts bees. You can discuss anything and everything with the aim of reaching an amicable compromise, and engendering peace at all times. Say it as it is albeit in a very friendly manner.
To err is human but to forgive is divine, they say. We offend one another most of the time. But what makes the world go around is the ability that we all have to forgive each other. But what I have discovered over time is that there are some people who find it so hard to forgive. On the other hand, your willingness and ability to forgive others can actually get you attracted to the man of your dreams.
Some persons claim that it’s actually easier for the camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a lady to attract a Godly man as a life partner. But the above proven strategies have nullified such a claim.